• Avoid denying there is a problem.

  • Don’t assume the person is trying to punish you.

  • Communicate about the problem.

  • Talk them to the doctor.

  • Make sure there is nothing to slow them down when they need to urinate.

  • Help set up a toilet schedule.

  • Watch the fluids before bed.

  • Consider other possible triggers.

  • Learn about incontinence products.